From Self-Defense to Self-Confidence :: How Jiu Jitsu Transforms Kids
I recently signed my daughter and son up for Jiu Jitsu, and it’s been one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I initially enrolled them so they could learn to protect themselves — especially my daughter — but they’ve gained so much more during their time at Acadiana Jiu Jitsu. Jiu Jitsu has taught them valuable lessons in good sportsmanship, how to gracefully accept a loss, confidence, self-defense, focus, and much more.
My daughter is a girly girl! She loves all things arts and crafts, danced for about four years, and isn’t particularly into sports. So, what made us decide to put her in Jiu Jitsu? It was my desire to ensure she could defend herself if ever attacked. It’s a frightening thought, but we know all too well that it’s possible for a young woman to face danger on a college campus or even in a parking lot. I needed to know she’d have the tools to defend herself and escape an attacker. What I didn’t realize was how much more Jiu Jitsu would offer her.
When she first started, I was incredibly worried; she is such a delicate girl. I was also concerned she might be one of the few girls in the class. To our surprise, there were many girls, which gave her a significant confidence boost. Each month, they learn a positive word — like “patience” — to help them hone that skill. During sparring, they don’t always win, but the coaches ensure they help each other up and encourage one another. I love how the coaches are constantly watching, teaching, and providing positive feedback. The confidence my daughter has gained is priceless. Her grit on the mat leaves me speechless. She has gone from essentially playing dead to holding her own and giving any opponent a run for their money.
It makes my heart smile to see her suit up and give me that joyous smile before and after class.
We signed our son up for Jiu Jitsu so he could learn self-defense, but I also hoped he’d learn to stay still, focus, and listen. He moves at 100 miles an hour daily and needed something to help him concentrate, and Jiu Jitsu has done just that. I’ll be honest; it started off rough for him because he struggled with focusing. He’d miss the moves and didn’t pay attention as he should have. However, the coaches have found effective ways to engage him. They don’t go easy on him, but they consistently remind him of the standards required to succeed. He has learned to focus remarkably well and is so happy when he masters new moves. His confidence has skyrocketed, and he cherishes the friendships he’s made.
Acadiana Jiu Jitsu has been a game changer for our family. The coaches are amazing; they work wonderfully with the kids and exude positivity. I love that they combine positivity and being good humans with the skills needed for self-defense. They also offer several classes for adults and kids, so be sure to check out their Facebook page. If you’re looking for an activity for your kids, please consider giving Jiu Jitsu a try — Acadiana Jiu Jitsu would love to have them!
